COMMUNICATION

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In 3 John 13, the apostle John informs Gaius that he had many things to write, but preferred not to use pen and paper. John believed the content was best shared in person. In today’s world, with so many communication methods, face-to-face interaction is often viewed as inconvenient. Many people spend more time texting than talking. While email and messaging are efficient, there are times when face-to-face communication is the most effective, or if not possible, consider using a phone call.

The goal of all communication is understanding. When discussing complex matters, face-to-face interaction allows for immediate clarification, reducing misunderstandings. If you're exchanging texts or emails and find yourself replying multiple times for clarification, it's a good idea to call the person instead.

Use face-to-face communication when negotiating at work, followed by email for confirmation. Sensitive topics are also better handled in person, as written messages can be misinterpreted or scrutinized. Ending a relationship is another instance where face-to-face communication shows respect; no one should find out about a breakup through social media or a text message. Treat others how you would want to be treated.

Communication is about more than just words; it’s about meaning. Face-to-face interaction lets you interpret non-verbal cues like facial expressions, tone, and body language. When communicating, consider that there is a significant difference between what is convenient and what is truly effective.